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Yes
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, T
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Phone
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Phone
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, T
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Phone
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, T
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Tablet
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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, Phone
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Phone
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, P
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Phone
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Phone
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, T
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1
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Phone
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Phone
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Just right
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Just right
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Desktop
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2
9
Just right
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2
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Just right
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2
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Yes
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Yes
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2
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, P
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Phone
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Yes
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Yes
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Desktop or laptop, P
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1
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Yes
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Phone
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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1
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Desktop or laptop, P
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Phone
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1
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2
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Phone
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2
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Just right
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2
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Yes
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2
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Yes
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Yes
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Desktop
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2
9
Just right
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10
2
10
Just right
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2
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Yes
122
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2
13
Yes
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10
2
14
Yes
125
10
2
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Should be changeable
128
8
2
9
Just right
129
8
2
10
Just right
130
8
2
11
Yes
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8
2
12
Yes
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8
2
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No
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2
14
Yes
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2
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Yes
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14
1
1
Yes
138
14
1
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No
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14
1
5
Desktop or laptop
142
14
1
6
Desktop or laptop
144
14
2
8
Desktop
145
14
2
9
Just right
146
14
2
10
Just right
147
14
2
11
Yes
149
14
2
13
Yes
155
25
2
9
Just right
156
25
2
10
Just right
164
11
2
8
Desktop
167
11
2
11
Yes
168
11
2
12
Yes
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2
13
Yes
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11
2
14
Yes
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22
2
9
Just right
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2
10
Just right
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2
11
Yes
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2
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Yes
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2
14
Yes
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2
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12
2
9
Just right
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12
2
10
Just right
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12
2
12
Yes
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12
2
14
Yes
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6
3
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No
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3
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Yes
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3
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No
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6
3
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Yes
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6
3
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Yes
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3
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Yes
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1
3
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No
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3
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Yes
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1
3
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Yes
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1
3
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Yes
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1
3
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Yes
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1
3
24
Yes
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8
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No
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8
3
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Yes
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8
3
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Yes
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8
3
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Yes
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8
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Yes
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Yes
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10
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No
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10
3
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Yes
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Yes
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10
3
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Yes
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10
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Yes
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10
3
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Yes
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1
Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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1
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Yes
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9
1
5
Desktop or laptop, T
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1
6
Phone
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1
7
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9
2
8
Phone
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9
2
9
Just right
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2
10
Just right
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2
11
Yes
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9
2
12
Yes
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9
2
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Yes
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9
2
14
Yes
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9
2
15
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9
2
16
Yes
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9
2
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243
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1
1
Yes
244
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1
2
No
245
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1
3
Yes
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19
1
5
, Tablet, Phone
248
19
1
6
Phone
249
19
1
7
250
17
2
8
Desktop
251
17
2
9
Just right
252
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2
10
Just right
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2
11
Yes
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2
13
Yes
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2
14
Yes
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2
16
Yes
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17
2
17
262
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3
20
Yes
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22
3
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Yes
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3
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Yes
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3
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Yes
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3
24
Yes
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1
1
Yes
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18
1
3
Yes
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3
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No
279
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3
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Yes
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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14
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Yes
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14
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Yes
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Yes
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14
3
24
Yes
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16
2
8
Tablet
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16
2
9
Just right
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2
10
Just right
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2
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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2
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Yes
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2
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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10
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10
4
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8
4
30
No
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4
31
Yes
336
18
2
8
Phone
337
18
2
9
Just right
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2
10
Just right
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2
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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No
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Yes
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4
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No
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Yes
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No
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No
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No
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6
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Yes
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Yes
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Excellent
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Yes
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No
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No
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No
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1
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Yes
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Yes
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42
Amazing!
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No
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4
31
Yes
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4
30
No
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14
4
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Yes
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No
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4
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430
25
5
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Yes
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5
35
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Yes
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10
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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10
5
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Excellent
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5
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Yes
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5
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No
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No
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Yes
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Yes
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5
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Yes
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14
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Yes
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14
5
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Yes
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14
5
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Good
458
11
5
37
No
472
1
6
43
Yes
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1
6
44
No
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1
6
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No
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1
6
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No
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6
6
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Yes
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6
6
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Yes
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6
6
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Yes
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6
6
46
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6
6
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Yes
483
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6
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No
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14
6
46
487
25
6
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Yes
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25
6
44
Yes
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2
Yes
(™) looks like how one would type the trademark symbol. It doesn't look like the abbreviation of the site name; it looks like the name Tell Me is trademarked.
187
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2
11
No
"Show Events" lists 2 weeks of events. The quotes or bolding on Show Events would make me read it as a button instead of the beginning of a sentence. "While not apparent" is almost self-degrading. I thought it was apparent, or at least I thought I should click on it to find ou
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14
3
19
Yes
"unknown field in the time zone" shows 12 then 12 hour then 24 hour
153
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2
17
actually, yes, except for the virus thing
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4
32
Adding and editing are good (getting used to the scrolling option at the bottom of the screen). But what if I want to cancel a task? I guess that's the same as skipping it? I did 'skip' an event and it marked it with an x, so I guess that's the same. If I have a monthly task, but I skip it one month
484
14
6
45
Yes
After adding the HHR, went to indicate that I have put new struts and shocks on, but the choice I had was HHR. Selected that, then had to choose , as my next choice, then received the error reading: history query [you have an error in the SQL syntax...]
397
20
4
26
All choices
273
18
1
6
Tablet
and phone should work together
404
20
4
33
Awesome!
269
18
1
2
No
but would like to read again
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11
4
30
Yes
Can enter task, title and notes but can't review them so can't do 6-9. Error message: error running history query.(column event type in field list is ambiguous.)
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10
1
3
Yes
Can I go back and enter RV repairs from an earlier date?
143
14
1
7
can i skip putting in my mileage daily if i use this?
422
11
4
33
Can't comment yet. Can't change tasks due to error.
406
14
4
26
Coomputer all 8
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20
2
9
Just right
Didn't have a problem with the size
271
18
1
4
Yes
don't know I must have missed one of your emails will go back and check
310
1
4
27
Done
355
6
4
27
Done
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22
4
27
Done
407
14
4
27
done
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20
3
18
Droid turbo
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22
2
8
Desktop
During the day, it's faster for me to use desktop to get things done
328
8
4
27
Easy
459
11
5
38
No
Even though I did the To Date thru May 2016, it gave me 10 events through Aug. 2016.
424
25
5
35
Everything moved just fine. I postponed my postponed item again, and it automatically moved it to tomorrow. I liked that I could enter a new date if desired.
218
10
3
18
Galaxy 5
202
1
3
18
Galaxy Note 5
134
8
2
15
Good
66
1
2
15
Good idea
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1
4
29
Great
361
6
4
33
Great.
461
11
5
40
Yes
Have to assume it's better. Did not notice before. Sorry.
421
11
4
32
Haven't used yet due to error.
136
8
2
17
Having fun....
22
21
1
1
Yes
Help me plan my day, month, long term & short term goals and anything I need to keep tract of.
151
14
2
15
how about a to-do list unspecified
456
11
5
35
How do I delete a finished task? Note: Using MacBook Air this time. Easier to have two tabs open, one for survey questions and one for the site. I haven't tried to open 2 tabs on my Samsung Galaxy phone yet.
460
11
5
39
Yes
How do I view annual events? I can't see beyond 11-22. Don't know where I would use down arrows. Must have missed a tutorial. (Note: didn't add ALL birthdays--I have more than 200 noted! No time to do that this a.m.!)
34
20
1
4
No
Hubby takes care of all of that
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0
5
41
No
I added a task(s) called "Fake" and "Fake2", for today's morning, but when I went to view them, I did not see them on the schedule.
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10
4
27
I am now known as Fishhead.
160
25
2
14
Yes
I clicked on "pay Verizon" and say all the finished event. However, I couldn't seem to actually Pay Verizon to show it as completed. Maybe I'm just missing something....
189
12
2
13
Yes
I clicked one of them and then I knew. If I had set my own events, and got to choose to put them on the Personal or Service calendars, I would have known before clicking.
159
25
2
13
No
I confess, they confused me when I looked at it on my computer. When the buttons "say" SHOW.. nothing shows. It might have been that it's early and I'd only had one cup of coffee.... It did
444
8
5
39
No
I didn't add them all but no problem
157
25
2
11
No
I didn't understand at first why we were looking at William's stuff. But I guess it's just to show a generic example. But you asked if I understood - and this did confuse me. But let's remember, it's
161
25
2
15
I don't know if I'd be interested in assigning even a general time to something that just had to happen on a particular day (like a due date for a bill). Is that going to be optional?
192
12
2
16
Yes
I don't know why I'm not digging the brown...
330
8
4
29
I don't think I would use the time span..
379
25
4
33
I like being able to add things to a grocery list, but I'm not sure about assigning it to a day. My lists are pretty fluid and are always being added to. I guess it moves to the next day (question 9 :)).
357
6
4
29
I like it
370
22
4
33
I like it :)
371
22
4
34
I like that the tasks will move to the next day if not completed!
257
17
2
15
I like that you can just put in a task without a time. And if it doesn't get done that day, have it moved to the next day. For instance: Do Yoga with Ellen on Tuesday. It doesn't get done because we decide to drink wine instead. Move it to Wednesday!
375
25
4
29
I like the idea of a time span. Having a general order for tasks/events/svcs would be helpful.
366
22
4
29
I like the time span option.
193
12
2
17
I love surveys. Bring it on.
400
20
4
29
I love the time span option. Certain items get fit in my day as I have time, this way I can just use time span rather than an artificial time
290
20
3
25
I love this program. It is more comprehensive than any calendar I have used.
413
14
4
33
I may have to put you on my mobile device!
127
8
2
8
Tablet
I pad
327
8
4
26
I Pad
210
8
3
18
I phone 6, I Pad, and lap top
436
10
5
39
Yes
I put in karen's Birthday, but it is not showing up..
154
25
2
8
Desktop
I started using my computer, but just now pulled it up on my iPhone. It obviously looks better on the phone!
172
11
2
16
Yes
I think the gray color of this page's background art would look better with the blue type than the current orangey/yellow.
466
0
5
37
Yes
I tried to add a weekly repeating event, called "blah blah." From Date was Nov 12, 2015 and To Date was Dec 31, 9999 (not that I expect to be around then). The sample dates don't look right: Thursday 11-12-2015 Wednesday 12-31-1969 Wednesday 12-31-1969 Wednesday 12-31-1969 etc.
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25
6
45
Yes
I tried to add our motorhome, filling in all the blanks and got the following error message - There was an error running the Equipment query [Unknown column 'EquipmentLastUnits' in 'field list'] I got the same error when I tried to add a generator.
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1
4
28
I understand
277
25
3
20
No
I understand the button actions, but I don't understand why if I choose "skip", it's marked "Finished" instead of skipped. I did that before I did the questionnaire and found that confusing.I was surprised to see that it was marked as finished.Since it was not.
152
14
2
16
Should be changeable
i use purple for personal, red for important, my own categories
377
25
4
31
No
I was surprised that the task I entered that had an exact time did not list that time in the Show Events. It was in the correct order, but did not show the time. Do I need to enter the time in the title? That seems redundant.
254
17
2
12
No
I would like to see a month
380
25
4
34
I'll see how logging in tomorrow will work - but I imagine all will be good. Glad to have the password thing straightened out (at least for today!).
372
25
4
26
I'm doing the survey on my computer, but using Tell Me on my iPhone. My time zones showed 7 choices.
468
0
5
39
Yes
I'm not sure what to do with the "Every" blank, just FYI. I added "Morgan birthday" and the repeating dates are all "Tuesday 06-21-2016" (which is the start date I selected.)
469
0
5
40
No
I'm sorry, I don't remember! ;( No complaints about it though
431
25
5
42
Good
I'm still new at this type of scheduler, so I'm still working through my thought process of whether or not it will be useful to me.
96
22
1
4
Yes
I'm willing to try it.
55
25
1
4
Yes
If Gary likes it, we'll be using it!Time will tell.
482
14
6
43
No
If I had not previously added a set of recurring Events....., how do I respond? And it will not let me send this without choosing one so choosing no
416
11
4
27
If I use a fake name and forget it, are there hints?
462
11
5
41
No
Instead of 10:30 a.m., it changed the time to 9:25 a.m. (the current time of when I made the change).
275
25
3
18
iPhone 6
475
1
6
46
It looks good
429
25
5
40
Yes
It makes sense - once you know that you can find the "exact time" spot in the dial.
465
0
5
36
No
It showed me the "pull-down" menu to pick Daily and I could scroll through the choices (I'm using an iPhone), but when I selected "Done" it did not actually select "Daily." I tried and successfully selected "Weekly," then could go back and pick "Daily.&qu
382
6
5
36
No
It went to 10000
450
14
5
37
No
It would be REALLY nice to have a pop up calendar to see the month, next month on this. I am visual and I wanted to add physical therapy on Tuesdays b ut did not know the date so had to make a little calendar to find the start date, hoping that today was the 6th.
447
8
5
42
Excellent
It's still takes some time so use.. That's just me not the program.
426
25
5
37
Yes
Just the 9999 thing again. Otherwise, it makes sense.
354
6
4
26
laptop computer. Eight choices.
318
10
4
26
Laptop, Samsung 6; laptop showed all eight choices, and the changes were made, the Samsung immediately synced with the laptop.
148
14
2
12
Yes
Lets u know what is coming up that has to be attended to.
116
20
2
17
Like it. Easy to use
183
22
2
17
Looking good!
21
1
1
7
Phone
Looks good!
37
20
1
7
Phone
Looks like a great tool
58
25
1
7
Looks like it's a good start!
316
1
4
33
Love you
97
22
1
5
Desktop or laptop, P
Macbook Air, iPhone
89
11
1
4
Yes
Marginally; only for car maintenance services.
246
19
1
4
Yes
Maybe
425
25
5
36
Yes
Maybe I'm just tired from being on the road for two days, but backing up the ToDate from 9999 to 2015 was a bit tedious. (I went on to the next questions and then realized that I had added two of the same daily events. Although I could see how to delete each event each day, I couldn't see how to ac
278
25
3
21
No
Maybe just because it's sample data, but it is using the wrong time zone. Will there be somewhere to determine that? or will it pick up the time from the phone? It said 5:44, but it's actually 7:44 (Central)
139
14
1
3
Yes
MAYBE JUST TO HELP YOU, I USE THE E-MAIL CALENDAR FOR DATES
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25
2
17
Maybe not quite fun - but it sure is interesting! Trying to be 'real world' about this and appreciate the opportunity to be part of the beta team!
140
14
1
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Yes
MAYBE, esp. if i ever get a mobile rig
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Me gusta. <-- Estas palabras son en Espanol :)
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Yes
Might be nice to be able to add different colors for different events; e.g. pertaining to different organizations. But I do like "red" for Past Due.
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Desktop or laptop
My laptop is a 4-year-old MacBook Air. I will try to transition to using my phone, since the point is to try to stop using my hand-written date book.
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need to read it again
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No
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no
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No
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no
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No problems
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No problem
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No problems
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No
No problems; it took a minute or two to understand that the current selection was the one shown at the top of the list.
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No, seems to be working as expected.
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None
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No
None
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No
none
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none
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Yes
none now, maybe when i enter my own data
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Yes
Not sure
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Yes
Not sure about my oil, but I can see using it to do things like change the filter in the frig, etc.
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No
Not sure I see a help page? or where to go. Are we talking FAQ? or help button on mobile format?
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No
not yet, but not solve the above problem
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Not yet!
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Note 5
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Yes
Note posted, but event was marked as finished. I found this confusing. Does skipping it move it somewhere, or does it just go away?
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oh yes, we are having fun most definitely!
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ok
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On my MacBook Air, the last line of "Never Forget Again" wraps to the top of the second column.
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once i choose events or services could you make it so i go directly there when i hit menu rather than having the extra click each time? seems easy enough, maybe when i have an arm i will do this on the phone
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Yes
Once you figure out that you can change your date parameters, it's easy enough to look past or future. I think two weeks is fine.
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Good
Only "good" because I'm sure it's me and lack of practice!
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, Tablet
phone
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phone 1 desktop 8
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Phone fonts vary size on their own! Refresh usually fixes the fonts.
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No
Pickleball....just kidding.
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Just right
Probably could be smaller; I don't need my glasses to see it!
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Just right
Probably could be smaller; I don't need my glasses to see them!
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Yes
Probably depends on how many things are scheduled. Two weeks seems reasonable.
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No
Probably not, since it requires daily data input
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Good
Promising! This is the first time I tried using it on my iPhone and experienced some bugs. It seemed to work (the previous times) just fine with my laptop.
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Yes
Ran into the same "unable to delete complete event" - just the individual instances of it. I forgot to change the ToDate to just 6 months,so it's showing from now until 2020 (much better than 9999, btw). So, if I open an instance of the event I can delete it. No problem. But if I go into E
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Random comment: The login button is smaller than the "I forgot my password" button. I almost clicked the latter today logging in. Also, I did as you asked and used the phone to test and the desktop to enter my responses, but now I can only choose one device.
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Yes
Red is good choice, pretty standard for needs attention
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Should be changeable
Red is great for past due, but being able to color code activities by user set categories would be great. i.e. Health items - Green, RV Svc - Blue, Vehicle Svc - Black, Household Bills - Orange. Manic
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Samsung Galaxy Note 4 shows all choices.
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Seems fine to me for now. I may have a different opinion when I enter my own tasks.
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Seems ok
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Since I couldn't add equipment, I didn't add any service.
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So far so good.
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Yes
Still want to see a calendar somewhere
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Tasks that have no specific time are listed because you don't want to forget them. Not sure they need to be marked morning noon or night.
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Tablet
Thanks for the help with the password...
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No
That will depend on if it surpasses my current calendar and to-do apps (currently 2 separate apps)
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Yes
The "To" date defaults to the year "9999", and the "sample dates" are correct for the Start date, but recurring dates are all Wednesday 12-31-1969.
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The concept makes sense. Time will tell if the reality will!
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Yes
The directions were clear - but not what to do in case of an error message. Sorry this is so late - but we were moving, etc.Oh, and that holiday thing! :)
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Yes
They look nice
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Things seem to be coming right along!
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Think marketing..Big time Demos at FMCA rallies, Quartzite.......
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This is a good feature. It keeps tasks in order
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This makes sense.
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No
This seemed to work fine. Will there be any reminders built in for birthdays and other annual events?
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time is wrong after editing
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Time span is useful for me.
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Yes
Title and Notes appeared fine.
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Yes
Two weeks is fine since you can scroll down for more
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USING COMPUTER
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Using laptop for demo. Program shows all choices.
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When I first logged on there was nothing in the Tasks at all, logged on here to tell you and then went back and it was all there. Also, lost all the previous stuff I did on the questionnaire and had to fill it all back in.
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Yes
When is Ellen's b-day? I lost it.
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Will do
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Will use iPhone 6 in the future; currently using laptop
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Yes
Willing to give it a try!
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worked good
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works fine
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Works fine
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Works great!!!!!!
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yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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Yes
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yes
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yes
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Yes
yes
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Yes
yes, but then i did a skip w/o the note and could not figure out how to add the note later. maybe i am nervous and accidently did it too fast and now want to do it right.
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Yes
Yes, once I fixed the "every" default from -1, which gave me dates starting in 1969!
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Yes.
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You are welcome. Now can we go to the pool?
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You explained this before, but I forgot how it works with couples. Is there a way to indicate tasks/activities in which both will participate, and a way to list separate tasks/activities for each pers